I have been thinking for a long time about life and have been analyzing things happening and things I have been through. The only thing i have understood is that life is very simple and its just that we make it too complicated. Everyone has problems and everyone has trouble. But the difference is how they handle them. How do one react to a problem or situation is a self decision. No one is responsible for anyone and that’s a fact. Its what we decide and choose, that’s what make our life and who we are.
We do have lots of bonding and relations, but those are natural or social, but the decision is up to us to obey or not. There can never be an compulsion for any one to hate or love some one. But still we flow with the wave and are troubled with liabilities.
I just think whether is it worth taking these liabilities just for the sake of social or personal obligations. If we don't want then its not worth honoring. But most of the times we do defy these.
Is life just about social obligations, or is there anything for self. Is it not our life and should we not live it our way. No matter how bizarre it may be. But is not the persons choice to live it the way he/she likes it.
It is always forced on people to be complying on social obligations which eventually no one follows and these people are covering the non obedience in some or the other loop holes.
It is just that if we are too loud and clear about our non compliance of this conserved social circle, makes us wrong. But are we truly wrong in following our heart and our inner self. This world is equally ours as it is for any one else. The rules, government, laws etc. are man made and are to an extent required for an smooth social society. But the rules made by the society are not binding unless your actions are affecting other people.
We have been born in a free and democratic country and we have the freedom to live our life freely. Is it not our right to decide things for our life and our well being. May be our decisions are wrong but our mistake is what will make us learn.
This anatomy is a part of my thoughts to the extent i can portray and will follow as i grow and learn.
